terkenag semasa dulu.......

semalam jumpa dengan buddy aku, our friendship dated wayyy back in 1982 when we first met during the cadet's orientation day...( two weeks before reporting to Post Dickson for our basic training with the rest of the army and the air force cadets.

it has always been good to meet up with her......it flashes back all the good times we had during the two years training......a very good experience indeed....something that u would love to recall but never to go through it for the second time....NEVER!!!! :):)

some advice....

was talking to my girl last night....about jodoh and bercintan......i told her, it is better that u tak bercinta, kenal, berkenan, siasat latar belakang, and pallling penting gunakan semua deria yang Allah anugerahkan.....oopppsssss...no tu bukan paling penting...tu no 2 penting, yang paling penting adalah sembahyang istikharah, ask Allah...is he the right choice? if Allah ilhamkan kepada u yang dia adalah calon suami, terima dan uruskan perkahwinan.....dan u terima dia selepas kawin seperti dia seadanya, tetapi...sekiranya u bercinta, semasa bercinta, romantik habis....bunga mawar tak pernah tinggal setiap harijadi.......tapi selepas kawin.....bunga mawar tak ada...romantik entah ke mana.......u akan penat memikirkan....kenapa selepas kawin perangai berubah.....kan poning palo.....

so...i told her, moral of my story is...

1. Sentiasa rujuk kepada Allah...walau di dalam apa keadaan sekalipun....terutama sekali soal jodoh, kerana sekali kawin...susah nak undur balik....
2. perangai sebenar lelaki akan hanya dapat dilihat selepas berkahwin.......
3. trust your gad feelings....

anyways.........its all up to her....may Allah guide her...amin..

how i destress myself for the past 22 years of marriage ;)

1. He forgets my birthday......nevermind.....buy secret recepi's cake , order a bouqet of roses, send it to my office......pass the bill to him;



2. he seldom touch me.....its ok.... ill touch him, hug him from behind, give him a kiss at the back of his head, tell him that i would like him to do the same to me, then just leave him be;



3. he didnt wish me happy birthday......ill call him and remind him that today is my birthday and a wish from him is overdue......



4. He is busy with his golf and friends.....wellllll....ok darling....i have spa appoinments to be considered and a shopping spree with girlfriends; and if he still is busy, treat myself with movies....hmmmm...that sounds good....



5. He couldnt be bothered with groceries.....welll honey, i dont have anything to cook....yr children are hungry........

p/s: see guys???? never let men stress you out........after all life is too short......

there are more if i were to list them down, but i think those are enough for the time being....

cheers

world no 1 vs world no 2

I must say this...

seeing lee chong wei playing against lin dan.......a match worth waiting for...Lin Dan was full of energy..kudos to the chinesee team, but not to undermine chong wei......he tried his best .. and i think i am happy with silver....of course misbun and chong wei could have done more....but i think both of them deserve a pat on their back.....well done chong wei n misbun..

phases of life - mine of course

my present life - just started work with one of the logistic company.....in maritime industry...i should say that this is one of the big names in this industry.....started 14th August 2008...suppose to start on the 11th but ..... nevermind.....i'm ok..

my previous life - was with the malaysian maritime enforcement agency in the logistic world for a 2 year contract.........quite an experience.......

my previous previous life - was with the royal malaysian navy for almost 22 years.....a truly wonderful life .. and i must say that a life a treasure most....

and....life as it is...is born

this is going to be my private space....where i can scream, laugh, cry and do whatever i want without having to think twice....so to speak....